Lonely road ...

I have always heard people feel bad about some of their friends/relatives not liking their company or not enjoying being in their company. But, I think we have nobody to blame.. I thought I will dedicate this post to explain all about this.. Imagine a day you were left all alone in your apartment, with nobody to call, nobody to talk, no shopping to do because its a holiday out there, no friends online to chat (Unless you have those strange habits of talking to strangers online), just you to spend time with yourself.. Most of us would come up with an expression "I am bored".. Have you ever wondered you were not with somebody else but with your own self.. the person whom you like the most.. Who if teased you cannot bear, whom if people labeled boring guy you cannot hold on your nerve, who in your perspective is the most interesting person... I remember watching the movie "I am legend".. Being an only human left on the earth the hero (Will smith) suffers to find a companion.. goes on in a surge of finding someone to talk.. talks to mannequin not able to withstand his loneliness.. You must be wondering why did I even start a post on such a topic was I bored ( Hahaha may be u got it x-) ).. The reason I went on to write this post is because I feel that reason why we are unhappy in this world is because we keep trying endlessly to force our beliefs, our point of views, our importance on friends/relatives. But, when we are left to live alone we get bored/vexed of our ownself which indicates that we are expecting to change people into someone whom we dont like either. Friends just think about it and may be most of your problems in life will be solved. May be this is why God did not make a duplicate copy of you and made you unique. For the tenure we live on this earth let's make it a point to let people be themselves, let's not impose ourselves on them, Let's learn to live joyfully with our own self.. When this thing can happen you can see that friends/relatives will start enjoying your company... Life is a stage to perform the role you were given to play the best way you can.. Don't become the director of the play by thinking to take on the onus of changing the roles of others/your.. Because its like expecting a dog to meow and a cat to bark.. Nothing will happen but only you will turn your life into a mess.. So friends play your role excellently and honestly and let things fall in place...

words another form of sword :)

Have you ever observed the “words” which is nothing but jumbled form of the word “sword”, I was just thinking what might have been the reason for such a coincidence of the words.. Then it struck me that a sword may still have a direction and when you use it you can take care that it will not hurt you, but words in their jumbled format need to be selected and used so carefully because you don’t know which direction are they pointing to.. It is only words that can make a person closest to you and it is the same thing that can build walls too. We hear so much about scarcity of water/vegetation etc.. but I think if there is something really scarce then it is Love/Care. Every time I see a orphan/people in oldage homes it hurts how life could have been so rude.. I know you may argue that it is Karam etc.. True may be but why can’t there be pure love ….Imagine a world where people have no second thought to express their feelings, where they are not frightened or emotionally tensed to say what they desire. We hear of terrorists trying to create panic, but have we ever heard of emotional killings that happen everyday.. Hope I am not exaggerating things a bit, but every second someone somewhere in the world has to suppress his feelings, being made deprived of expressing his inner feelings, being hurt emotionally by people who are held close to his heart. We may have multi specialty hospitals to cure the most critical undiagnosed disease but, show me a place where a person undergoing emotional stress from his own people can find cure. I think anything worth giving in this world is not money but Care/Love/Affection to say don’t worry I am there with you, making somebody feel they are not alone.. I keep observing people around and see though they are physically close there is some vacuum that either people chose to ignore knowingly or don’t want to face it. Lord give us the power to give enough Love/Care to those around us that there should be nothing more to ask for.

Life under a vikkyscope...

I have been observing people and sometimes it makes me wonder in the process of growing if we calculate the net worth of life did we gain something or lose. The moment a task is given we start thinking of risk and advanatages of doing it/ not doing it. Then we start to put our false prestige at stake. Will our decision please(one who we think will do us a favor) other person. Slowly this thought process starts us to wear a new mask on our faces and life long we keep having this mask on. There will be times when people start cursing life, get frustated with artifical behavior and then pray deeply from heart to get rid of the role they landed themselves into. I see children and feel amazed. Have you ever wondered by the fact that everyone of us can walk? Yes I have because its a challenging task for every child to learn walking but everybody does it. I think reason is because there is no false prestige in the moments when we fall off, nor is there a risk calculation or an outlook for calculating the advantages of walking, we start off, fall (several times..not to mention but even get hurt occasionally) but never let the goal off our sight. We keep striving for it and here we are where we are not only walking but running toooo. Today our measure of success is just scoring points more than some body else That's it. Our scale of measurement is people's praise and their view points we have lost the art of using self satisfaction for measuring the success..... Love to be a child again who does not fear to try something new, does not limit his capabilities, does not feel he is the only bearer of torch, Has trust so much that when he is flewn in the sky by his mom/Dad he knows they will hold him firm. So that's how life is under vikky scope.... Check out this space for my next psychic post.... hahahaha Have a great Day... Stay Hungry Stay foolish....

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I am not a philosopher but love to explore the lessons that nature wants us to learn from its very simple signs. Signs that seem very obvious to us and we dont even pay attention to them acutally convey a lot.

Because Einstein said "Everything in the world happens for a reason". Your visting my blog is not an accident but an incident. In this world there are no accidents - from Kung Fu Panda.

I would like to echo a famous saying “There is nothing permanent in this world except change” because the basic reference used to describe the events as past, present and the future is time and time itself keeps changing. Change is an indicator for growth because if we keep facing the situations without any variations then it does not add up to the expertise that we possess but change does make it happen. Change can be viewed in two ways one as a threat and the other as an opportunity. Let me explain it briefly with an example. Suppose there are two surfers facing the tidal wave which they have never come across in their daily surfing, now one of them starts finding ways to avoid getting on the waves, and the other tries to face the wave so that it can turn out to be a learning experience to him. Now, if we observe at a macroscopic level we can say that both have accepted change. But, one has accepted to change the path of travel, as the circumstances are superior to him else would have preferred to change the circumstances. Most of the time it happens that we end up expecting things and surroundings to change so that we can reach our expectations and lose the opportunity to evolve or reach the expectations. The other surfer had accepted to change and experience the change by facing it showing his ability to evolve. Importance of change can be addressed with a historical example that imagine if the living organisms were not susceptible to change then we would have been extinct because, if in the history organisms, which could not adapt to the changes in the surrounding have become extinct. For example the Dinosaurs are extinct because they could not adapt to the changing surroundings. Often a question arises in the mind that “Are we so timid to have accepted Change?”. Let me explain the answer with an analogy that grass in an ocean which represents people with attitude to change for better seem to be timid but, it’s ability to readily accept change makes it face the fiercest of storms (difficulties of life). Where as a Strong trees (people with attitude of being stubborn and resistant to change) shatter and uproot when faced by a storm. Hence, friends let us grab the opportunity of facing the change in every walk of life and rise to greater heights.


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