Lonely road ...

I have always heard people feel bad about some of their friends/relatives not liking their company or not enjoying being in their company. But, I think we have nobody to blame.. I thought I will dedicate this post to explain all about this.. Imagine a day you were left all alone in your apartment, with nobody to call, nobody to talk, no shopping to do because its a holiday out there, no friends online to chat (Unless you have those strange habits of talking to strangers online), just you to spend time with yourself.. Most of us would come up with an expression "I am bored".. Have you ever wondered you were not with somebody else but with your own self.. the person whom you like the most.. Who if teased you cannot bear, whom if people labeled boring guy you cannot hold on your nerve, who in your perspective is the most interesting person... I remember watching the movie "I am legend".. Being an only human left on the earth the hero (Will smith) suffers to find a companion.. goes on in a surge of finding someone to talk.. talks to mannequin not able to withstand his loneliness.. You must be wondering why did I even start a post on such a topic was I bored ( Hahaha may be u got it x-) ).. The reason I went on to write this post is because I feel that reason why we are unhappy in this world is because we keep trying endlessly to force our beliefs, our point of views, our importance on friends/relatives. But, when we are left to live alone we get bored/vexed of our ownself which indicates that we are expecting to change people into someone whom we dont like either. Friends just think about it and may be most of your problems in life will be solved. May be this is why God did not make a duplicate copy of you and made you unique. For the tenure we live on this earth let's make it a point to let people be themselves, let's not impose ourselves on them, Let's learn to live joyfully with our own self.. When this thing can happen you can see that friends/relatives will start enjoying your company... Life is a stage to perform the role you were given to play the best way you can.. Don't become the director of the play by thinking to take on the onus of changing the roles of others/your.. Because its like expecting a dog to meow and a cat to bark.. Nothing will happen but only you will turn your life into a mess.. So friends play your role excellently and honestly and let things fall in place...

words another form of sword :)

Have you ever observed the “words” which is nothing but jumbled form of the word “sword”, I was just thinking what might have been the reason for such a coincidence of the words.. Then it struck me that a sword may still have a direction and when you use it you can take care that it will not hurt you, but words in their jumbled format need to be selected and used so carefully because you don’t know which direction are they pointing to.. It is only words that can make a person closest to you and it is the same thing that can build walls too. We hear so much about scarcity of water/vegetation etc.. but I think if there is something really scarce then it is Love/Care. Every time I see a orphan/people in oldage homes it hurts how life could have been so rude.. I know you may argue that it is Karam etc.. True may be but why can’t there be pure love ….Imagine a world where people have no second thought to express their feelings, where they are not frightened or emotionally tensed to say what they desire. We hear of terrorists trying to create panic, but have we ever heard of emotional killings that happen everyday.. Hope I am not exaggerating things a bit, but every second someone somewhere in the world has to suppress his feelings, being made deprived of expressing his inner feelings, being hurt emotionally by people who are held close to his heart. We may have multi specialty hospitals to cure the most critical undiagnosed disease but, show me a place where a person undergoing emotional stress from his own people can find cure. I think anything worth giving in this world is not money but Care/Love/Affection to say don’t worry I am there with you, making somebody feel they are not alone.. I keep observing people around and see though they are physically close there is some vacuum that either people chose to ignore knowingly or don’t want to face it. Lord give us the power to give enough Love/Care to those around us that there should be nothing more to ask for.